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I am alright.

I am also not alright.

The worst revenge I think of is sleeping with some stranger.

And I know that I am not that type.

Have I considered leaving? Yes

Have I left? No

Do I really want to leave? No

Do I think his mistake is huge? Yes

Can it be forgiven? No idea

Maybe I say it is huge but I don't get the gravity?

I feel apologetic in pointing out what he has done. And then I wonder why I should feel shame.

He feels shame. And then he gets angry.

Molly is still around - which complicates matters.  

Comments

  1. Stacie5 March 2016 at 12:03

    Huge, huge hugs, my friend. I am so sorry you are going through this.

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  2. Anonymous5 March 2016 at 15:55

    God, I am ever so sorry you are going through this, dear...
    Wishing you strength. Again. It shouldn't be like this.

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  3. MrsSpock5 March 2016 at 20:49

    After seeing several people go through this, it's very easy for others to give advice and say "You should do xyz". Those who made it through to the other side tell me the best advice is "You don't have to make any decision to do anything now. You can just let things percolate." I know people who divorced and feel it was the best decision, and those whose turbulence catapulted them into a stronger better union. It's OK to take time and work through what you feel you want.

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  4. Delenn6 March 2016 at 10:36

    I am so sorry you are dealing with this, especially with everything you have went through. I think MrsSpock's advice is spot on--time to work it through is important. (Hugs)

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  5. Fran7 March 2016 at 13:00

    Is he admitting to it? Is he justifying it somehow? Does he say it's over? Hugs

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  6. E. Phantzi8 March 2016 at 00:44

    I'm just spitting mad that you have to go through this betrayal. (((hugs))))

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  7. areyoukiddingme9 March 2016 at 03:54

    It would just be easier if you could settle it all with a fistfight or something. Unfortunately, feelings and trust and consequences must be involved. Sending you lots of strength, endless reserves of patience, and freedom from feeling bad about anything that is not expressly your fault.

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  8. lostintranslation10 March 2016 at 02:20

    Oh no! I'm so sorry... I like what MrsSpock said. Wishing you lots of strength, patience and wisdom to deal with all this. Hugs.

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  9. battynurse10 March 2016 at 10:09

    I'm so sorry. Hugs.

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  10. AnotherDreamer13 March 2016 at 10:56

    No advice either, but my heart hurts for you. hugs.

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