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BFN and Apparently After

Let's get to the technical aspect of this failure. I had apparently good eggs and good sperms. Apparently, my fertilization potential is also superb. Apparently, I am too good to be true. :(

It is obvious that there was implantation failure. For what reason? There are no clear reasons for the same. My doc told me that some 'fragmentation' was visible in the embryos that were created. Fragmentation is not a sign that pregnancy will not occur. But, it is certainly a demoting factor in embryo grading. But lower quality embryo does not mean that embryo is not viable. My doc recently had a successful conception with severely fragmented embryos. But I have always been on the wrong side of statistics. That, apparently, is my problem.

My embryos, did not go beyond the four-cell stage. None of them did. If you remember from my previous posts, 9 embryos had been created, out of which three were transferred. Well, my doc did not freeze any of them. None of the left-over grew! The next time I go for a similar cycle, I will again start from scratch.

I came here with a dream, I will be going back with its ruins. I am a prize horse that lost out in the last lap.

My doc has asked me to not start another cycle till March 2009. Even if he would have asked, I think I am not ready to start another cycle immediately.


Yet a ^WiseGuy^

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  1. Don't stop dreaming. Please.

    xxx

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  2. i'm so sorry, i wish there was something i could say, but i know there really isn't :(

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